My mom is an IP for my grandparents but she also suffers from ADD and struggles greatly with getting her homework done, can we do anything?

My mom is terrified, staying up until she passed out, crying all of the time because she knows that her parents need her and do not want someone else in the home. It doesn’t help either that I have Autistic Spectrum Disorder/MDD/ADD non hyperactive like my mom/C-PTSD, amongst other things but I don’t want to list too many things and not be taken seriously since I know ASD and CPTSD have become very trendy which is deeply upsetting; getting to the point, I’m on disability for what was at the time called PTSD 2 when I was 16 and is now called CPTSD and I’m 25, I very rarely leave my house, I avoid people, I don’t sincerely trust anyone but my mom, people online see me as “big tiddy goth gf” and “shitposter” but I cannot explain heavily enough that I am a full on shut in and I need my moms care almost as much as my grandparents. She bathed me for fucks sake. We need her and she needs this us otherwise she’d be worried constantly, and she needs this income Tomorrow night will be the cut off and she could lose her job. My mom is the kindest and more selfless person I know and I hear others tell her the same constantly. I just want to yo take this terrible suffering and fear off her back, she works for my grandparents and for me alll day UNTI BED. I can’t handle seeing her suffer when she has devoted her life to us. Between the ADD and the working for us it’s incredibly difficult for her to do her homework on a time limit, she gets it done but she caring for 3 people CONSTANTLY and I mean she NEVER gets a break. She’s on the floor with the laptop choking back tears and I keep offering to help her but she refuse because “that would be cheating”. It’s breaking my heart, I’m in the bathroom sobbing and typing this. We live in Washington state if that helps since I know the laws vary state to state. I am desperate to help her; if the tables were turned she would go above and beyond for me. If there is any way to fix this you’d be my hero. If I could walk up to my mom and give her the news that she had even a few more days to finish the look on her face, and her looking at mine we would both probably burst into tears of joy. i would do anything to make that a reality. please help if you can ✨

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